Debbie – Exuberance & Excitement
My vision is a life of exuberance and excitement. Sleeping dreamily like a baby every night feels blissful. On quite a few nights, I experience fantastic dreams so vivid and real. I wake up feeling refreshed and somewhat surprised, and then sigh in content – real life is just as good, if not better, than my dreamed up fantasy. Life is full of excitement and stretching out of my comfort zone. Work is full of flow and stretch assignments that I take on with enthusiasm, gusto and a focus on results. Life is an enrollment game. I’ve been developing close friendships with a few ENFP women (MBTI test type) – our meetups are stimulating and exciting. I’m surrounded by promoter supporters and promoter controllers. My relationship with Kevin keeps getting better and better. I am sure, now more than ever that we always come to win-win situations. There is no lasting need to be right, only the need to be love. It’s funny how consistent the formula ends up being – the bigger the breakdown, the bigger the breakthrough. We are both intrigued by similar things, such as psychology, enrollment, learning and growth. We give each other the space to do our personal thing, and yet are so connected at the same time. We continue with our romantic, surprise-filled dates….sooo good! We have what it takes to create the relationship that we want, together. He is attentive and supportive. I am grateful and loving. Some would say I’m a hopeless romantic. I say I’m living a life of sparkles!
We empower and encourage my brother to constantly take himself on to the next level, so that he possesses the life skills to keep doing bigger and better things that serve his big picture dreams.
I easily shift into a mindset where I am all about results. With that way of being, my doing and having come naturally.
I’m all about the follow through – when I make a commitment, I readily make it happen. If my brain starts making excuses, e.g. “I’m too tired,” or “I don’t feel like it,” I simply ignore them to meet the deadline of how much by when. Hence, I am a woman of my word, and my word is my bond. I trust myself entirely, just as others have come to trust me.
I keep doing bigger and better things – stretching as a way of being. I am still the stretch queen. I am a natural saleswoman, and life is an exciting enrollment game. The results of my endeavors manifest themselves in various areas of my life, including money, work, family, and relationships. The content is the content, but the context remains the same: stretching outside of my box until it’s within my comfort zone, trusting myself, risking, not being afraid to make a mistake, seeing failures as steps closer to success, and having fun.
I don’t wait for the world to recognize my greatness – I live it, and let the world catch up to me.
I shoot for the moon and settle for the stars. Stars, you say? How very, readily fitting… I am, after all, living the sparkled life!
Best Wishes,
Debbie
Armelis – Happy Day!
I’ve been smiling (both outward and inward) since this morning. Leyanna went to bed with no diaper and actually woke me up this morning to use the bathroom, like a true “big girl”…I got to enjoy a good book on my train ride into the city and had lunch and a nice chat with a good friend…bought a new book to read and found a cute dress to wear whenever an occasion finds me! Also realized that happiness is made and maintained by oneself. Have a great day everyone.
Debbie: Sharing a colleague’s note
I received a note from someone that really put a smile on my face.. and want to share.
” A journey is a life that you will always want. But, the journey inside of you make it work. But, the journal you write make your journey better. Every day write in that journal. Because, it willmake you feel better and then you go back; pick-up that journal read what you wrote and say to yourself “WOW” did I do that. Super D, your life is a great journey with happiness, with family value with romance and lots of love. Don’t lose that my friend. Whenyou ever feeling down. There will always be way to pick yourself back up. “I just wanted to leave you this note”
Heather – Carnival in the Rain – with Arden!
Debbie: Time Travel…in Brooklyn
I decided to be proactive and signed Kevin and I up for an art workshop, as we are both artistic but have not tapped into our talents for quite some time. We ended up taking the train to Williamsburg. We explored the are for bellinis and finally found one, and had a nice brunch.
The art class was great. We enrolled people to give us their front row seats. We traced a Picasso picture called “Cafe Terrace at Night.” Interestingly, the place really does exist in Paris!
The most amazing part was being “in flow”…a warped perception of time…happiness… a semi-challenge. I felt great to know that I am still in love with creativity and art, and that it makes me feel happy.
Then, we went to this garden restaurant called DuMont and had drinks…it was so pretty. And… pear bellinis! The biggest surprise was when Kevin and I did a role play of our first date. Suddenly, I was back in time, 5 months ago. He was so charming that I couldn’t quite believe it. I felt self-c0nscious and breathless, yet charmed and somewhat shy. In fact, I felt like I was in flow… time seemed to stand still…a warped perception of time. I was in the zone and the world consisted of only me and him. It was so magical, and I loved every moment of it. It was like time travel.
Ruthie – 10 Years Later…
Vision Board! A visual collage of all the things we want in life…
As a Personal Dynamics graduate (transformational leadership workshop) who did the work 10 years ago, i am still working with the transformational technology everyday, sometimes grappling with the challenges of my own history. As homage to the work I now facilitate Vision Board sessions with groups and individuals and as of this week I now offer SKYPE sessions as a result of my first successful session this past week. I dedicate myself to empowering others with the gift of a vision board and the work which supports that vision.
PEACE and LOVE and send those who you know would benefit from this powerful work.
Salina: Games and Hobbies!
What’s next for me? —– New job and better opportunities. Success comes not only from experience, but from passion. After taking recent Abundance and Prosperity workshop, I realized what is my career vision. I had put a lot of thought and heart into this and discovered that the industry I have a passion for are games and hobbies! From 1998 to 2005; I had the pleasure to run a business call ALL FUN AND GAMES. I was the Buyer and Assistant Manager. This retail establishment sold anywhere from darts to pool tables; chess boards to high-end backgammon sets; bingo sets to casino equipment. All that involves indoor games for adults and kids. I had such a fun learning experience and opportunity in visiting trade shows, negotiating with vendors, and selling. I even grew to love educating customers so that they were willing to spend more money for quality and service. In truth, I want to run my own game store offering anywhere from “little kid” to “big kid” games. My business will hold exclusive leagues, tournaments, and fundraisers to support various causes. Your support will be greatly appreciated. Please get in contact with any potential leads that may be in a similar industry. Ask if they are open to sharing their information with me as a contact. I want to build a few new connections as well as having solid job referrals.
Anonymous – “I Get To…”
I want to declare the following to as many as possible.
I get to complete the Death Race, no matter how long it takes me.
I get to let go and trust that my grandparents will survive without me.
I get to create a new experience of my mother who is traveling to Vermont with me to be my support team (her idea).
Please send good energy my way Friday and Saturday, I’ll need it!
Debbie: A Celebration of Sparkles
I am the possibility of celebration, sparkles and surprises. For the first time in 12 years, with my newfounded (1.5 year old) paradigm shift, I feel good being one year older.
My birthday was intensely sparkly. We had dinner at this French restaurant called Bouley. The bar area was like a classy indoor garden. K had a sparkling bellini waiting for me at the bar area, which always makes the night magical! I am lucky that he loves taking photos and tries to get the best shots and backgrounds, including this flower background below. It was romantic and charming.
My friends Stephanie and Jenny came. We were led downstairs to a classy vampirical dungeon with bits of library thrown in…that’s the best way to describe it. See below for the chandelier dripping with vampire blood.
We had 6 people serving us. We asked the sommelier to bring out champagne and peach puree on the side, but he refused. LOL. We had fatty foi gras – for the first time I enjoyed it rather than not. I had a lobster dish. We got great desserts – 5 total (1 birthday dessert). The girls made fun of me that K and I are such camera w$^*%s and that we have such definitive facial expressions and poses. It was so funny. It’s great to be able to laugh at yourself. I enjoy watching people mock other people, including myself.
Later on, we went to Slate and I saw so many friends. It was great seeing everyone. Bellinis with a cherry in it are the best. This year, I “surrendered” – “Right now, this is it, and it’s perfect. It is what it is, and it isn’t what it isn’t.” Being in the present moment rather than being attached to who is or isn’t there was great.
The next day, I saw this beautiful card that a friend wrote, which had me feeling quite sparkly.
Life is good!
Ed Lehner’s Vision
Ed Lehner….that is me.
I have set some new goals. About 7 months ago, I was exploring how to develop a weight loss business. It is funny that I am so interested in weight loss since I am a “little chubby.” As I was doing the research for the business, I was spending a lot of time on social media platforms. This made me realized something. I loved many of the “social networking” aspects of developing my business. Within a short period of time, the weight loss program was still running but I had many more people interested in my social media marketing skills. So, I started a blog:www.Lehnermedia.com. All of a sudden, I had 15 clients and many more people calling. The business is growing quickly. As a result, I decided to set some new goals. Also, I enlisted some help.
The help came in the form of a seminar. I heard of a seminar leader named Liz Wolfe. She leads a workshop series called “Abundance and Prosperity.” Now, I am part of Liz Wolfe’s Abundance and Prosperity Workshops. I really like Liz’s work. As part of my work with Liz, I have set new goals for the next 12 weeks. One objective that I have set is to leave my Faculty Position within the City University of New York. Also, I want to be home more with my daughter more. Plus, I desire to earn more than my public servant’s salary dictates.
Below, I have attached one picture that outlines my new goal. Okay, this is not so much a picture but a vision which I drew. This drawing is not likely to win me any awards. However, they have set a clear direction for where I am going with my social media marketing career.
Below, you will find my first goal. That is, I will generate 49 K a month in revenue with my social media marketing consultancy. I primarily want to do this to stay home with my daughter. I am nearly 44 years old and this is my first child. I am not altogether sure how many are coming after her. Admittedly, my wife and I want to continue to “fill out” the team. But with the future not guaranteed, I am very content stay at home with my first born.
Also, to a degree, I generate 49 K a month to help people align with their vision. I have developed Lehner Media to create an amazing social media product but also to work with people who want something more than an average job. A good deal of this 49 K a month is paid to my employees. I need more people with whom to work. Writers, bloggers, photographers, videographers…. And more.
So…. Here is the picture of the Lehner Media Vision for the next 12 weeks…
Okay, we there is the picture. And, with the picture, there is the vision. If you are a good writer, and like to write text, I need writers. If you can perform any function in the social media process, I would love to hear from you.
Ed 212 810 4045
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